Saturday, January 17, 2009

Katy’s Family Forest, part 21

You have all been waiting very patiently for this next installment—thank you. We're really starting to get to recent events here, and even though these are what inspired me to start writing my adoption story, they're still a little awkward for me to actually put down "on paper", so to speak.

So. I sent the e-mail to Janet oh-so-smugly. Frank had turned his back on Jan when she was pregnant with me, then turned his back on me 20 years later when I tried to make contact. He was a military man who had left a trail of ex-wives and girlfriends and a few children behind. I had no doubt that he had been, and would always be, a hard-hearted jerk and a master manipulator. Why on earth would she leave her husband and children for him? (Keep in mind that I was thinking this—it's not what I wrote.)

It didn't take her long to e-mail me back. She had talked to Frank, and they wanted to meet me. I hadn't been certain that this e-mail would come, but it was far from a surprise. Honestly, Janet had talked about coming to meet me before—back when we were talking regularly—and it had never materialized, so I thought that she would make the offer again. I appreciated it, but didn't take it too seriously. So I answered in the one way that I knew would completely take the responsibility off of me…

I told her that I wanted to hear it from Frank.

I hit "send" and I waited. I waited the rest of the day. The rest of the week. The rest of the month. And then I wrote it off. I knew he hadn't changed. I marked that off the list and moved on. The story, as far as I was concerned, was done.

(Incidentally, it's not done… so keep reading! There will be more! J)


Wendy aka CalvaryGirl said...

I really need to start back at the beginning of this ;)

My Blog: CalvaryGirl

Courtney said...

Can't wait to hear the rest!

Megan Frederick said...

Hi Katy-
I stumbled across your blog a while ago through some link in cyberspace, and your story is fascinating. I just neglected my kids for a half hour catching up :-) It sounds like our kids are close in age--my daughter is 3 1/2 (her middle name is Grace), and my son, who just turned 2, is also named Matthew. They have a 3-month-old little brother too...better get back to them. Take care, and I'm interested to hear the rest!